The "optimal path" might be the thing holding you back
One of the most subtle forms of self-sabotage is chasing the "optimal path" — even if this "optimal path" isn't sustainable.
I see it everywhere: relationships, working out, diets, personal transformation.
And, of course, work.
For example, when you start working at a firm, in addition to "say yes to everything, do it all perfectly, and keep it up as long as necessary", you're told:
Work for key people (influential partners, or people on the associates/partnership committee) and wow them.
Eclipse your hours target and ensure you're one of the highest billing associates.
Never say no to something unless you're completely slammed.
All this to maximize (hopefully guarantee) your success.
Maybe it's because we're type-A, maybe we want to show we can do it, or prove the doubters wrong - whatever the reason, we chase this "optimal path" even when it's not sustainable.
But here's the problem:
If it's not sustainable, then by definition we can't sustain it through to the end. Yet we still try. And most of us (once we burn out) leave. 🤔
And here's the kicker:
The opportunity cost of chasing the "optimal path" is not being able to chase the other paths to success that might work for you.
Basically:
If you follow every recommendation, at some point you might not have energy for any of them.
The lucky (or astute) ones eventually pivot. They follow just the recommendations that work best for them — the highest leverage moves, the ones they enjoy, the ones they can stick with.
So why not just start there?
And if you find yourself this weekend thinking "I wish I didn't need to do this" — pay attention.
Maybe you don't.
Maybe it's worth digging into.
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